Jesus' Idea of Repair

I’m tired. I have felt all out of tears many times, but this time, I knew what to do. I prayed and asked the Lord to help me navigate these waters of church, politics, community and friendships. Most importantly, I asked Him to realign those tensions with His truth. The word He gave me in response was: repair.

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Mental Health Matters: You Are Enough.

When you’re in an environment, any environment, that often renders you depleted, it is your responsibility, and your’s alone, to recognize that you can’t control the environment, but you can shift the internal conversation. And sometimes that shift requires you to take a minute to breathe, recalibrate, seek professional counsel without shame or fear, reset your self-beliefs and restrategize.

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Tie It Off.

If you’ve followed me for any length of time, you’ve read about my marriage journey. It hasn’t been the fairytale that I imagined, by any means. It has been hard and has required daily work. However, the gratitude I have for how far we’ve come in the past three years is beyond my ability to articulate. The pride I feel when I look at James is proof that God’s grace is the real deal.

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Optimize Your Storage

Right after the new year began, I received a text message from someone in my husband’s life. This text message stated they had “forgiven me.” They listed all the things they had forgiven me of. What?? My immediate response was to press my “block” button.

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Press Pause.

Although having a full-time career, a husband and a daughter is quite the full plate, none of those roles produce that level of fatigue! My habitual lack of pressing the pause button is a sure-fire way, however, to slam on the brakes of my constantly moving locomotion.

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There is More | Reach for It!

I have to be honest with you all: Being a newlywed (2 months shy of 2 years in) with not-so-fairytale beginnings that still impact my heart and self-concept as well as my husband's, transitioning out of single motherhood and learning how to blend as a family, still identifying trauma triggers that expose hairline fractures in my soul that have yet to heal and not having a familiar and safe outlet to retreat to is difficult!

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Swim Lessons + Life Lessons

Overcoming fears, of any kind, takes a decision. You have to decide to see the life past your fear and pursue that life with courage. When I found out I was pregnant, I was afraid. when I arrived at the junction of forgiveness and reconciliation, or forgiveness and good riddance in my marriage, I was afraid.

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